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Chapters in this page:  
  Can A Woman Be Satisfied With A Small Penis?

Why big penises are better.

Women’s bad experiences.

How important is penis size for women?

Trying to have sex with a smalldick.

 
 
     
 

Can A Woman Be Satisfied With A Small Penis?

 
     
 

You must have heard the old cliché "size does not matter, it what’s you do with it". Do you really believe that? Do you think a woman would not prefer an 8 inches long and 6 inches thick penis to one that is 6 inches in length and 4 inches in girth? Yes, penis size matters a lot no matter how many clichés are used to prove that it does not matter, a large penis size would always be superior to a small penis size. This is something you just have to accept.

Long ago in most settlements women married as virgins due to customs that forbade premarital sex. Now take a look at what happens in today’s modern world. If you were to take a survey of the amount of women who were still virgins a year before their weddings it would be like looking for a boat in the Pacific Ocean. Women have more freedom today than ever before. A woman is free to end a relationship if her lover cannot satisfy her, there is no law stopping her from doing so.

Men with small penises are usually not excited with idea of making love to a pretty woman because they seem to get disappointed by whatever happens. If she doesn’t laugh they get the feeling she is secretly laughing and if she does laugh they feel bad for being ridiculed once again about their small penis size. These men usually have little or no confidence, unsatisfied partner(s), unsatisfying relationships, poor sex life and overall in competency with women. For these men the simple truth that they were born with a small penis size is like a nightmare that keeps haunting them. For most men the possession of a large penis means they could be classified as being a REAL MAN. We men tend to retain the age long theory that great sex is dependent on three factors, which are: a wide knowledge of sexual positions, being in full control of one’s ejaculations and having a large penis.

Although various sex therapist have tried to assure men with small penis that size does not matter when it comes to having great sex with their lovers. These sex therapist usually suggest other ways of pleasing their partners like increasing the amount of foreplay before penetration and using sexual positions that allow a large area of the nerves in the vagina to be stimulated. But these men usually find out that sex becomes more like a planned routine that have to keep following because any deviation from the plan would leave their lover totally unsatisfied.

1. A small penis size is disappointing to most women

There is no woman alive that loves a tiny penis! Most women are usually very disappointed when they find out the man that they have been dating has a small "thing". Let's say you are dating a pretty and voluptuous lady and the moment comes for you to finally have sex. You start with some little romancing and foreplay and later it becomes time for the two of you to remove your clothes. The moment she sees your tiny penis, she would either be disappointed or pissed off at your small size. Your small "male sex organ" is enough to turn her off - for her it's "what's the point of having sex when I wouldn't be satisfied."

2. A small penis size cannot stimulate a woman's G spot

I am sure you must have heard of the G spot in women and how it is the most sensitive spot in a woman's vagina. The G spot is situated at about 2 inches deep under the top of her vagina. When you stimulate this spot in women you can give her multiple orgasms. Some women even experience female ejaculation when the G spot is stimulated properly.

A big penis is capable of stimulating a woman's G spot easily, but a small one can never stimulate this spot. No matter the sexual positions you try if you have a small "male sex organ" you cannot stimulate the G spot well enough to give your woman orgasms and female ejaculations. And let me tell you a little secret, if you can't satisfy your lover fully in bed, a guy with a big penis would gladly satisfy her and take her away from you.

3. A small penis size gives very little pleasure to women during sexual intercourse!

There are pleasure spots that are located around the walls of the vagina starting from the entrance to deep into the vaginal canal. A big penis is capable of stretching a woman's vagina walls and penetrating into her vaginal walls. What these means is more pleasure for a woman during sexual intercourse. With your small "male sex organ" you would just end up frustrating most women. So you would have to resort to using your tongue and your fingers to satisfy your woman.

4. Men with small penises usually have low sexual confidence!

Every guy with a small or an average "male sex organ" wishes he had a big penis. Even some men with big penises wish they were bigger at times. Not to talk of guys with small members, that constantly worry about their small size and whether it is big enough to satisfy their lover. When you keep worrying about your penis size, your sexual performance would be very poor! Men that have a big penis know that having a big member has given them more power, more respect and more everything than guys with small "male sex organs".

These are the main reasons why women totally hate small penises.

By ASH3600

So many women would refuse to acknowledge that size is a major issue when it comes to sexually satisfaction in the presence of their lovers for fear of hurting their feelings. But we know the painful truth which is that, majority of women prefer a big penis to a small one, there is no wise saying to dispute that fact, as almost all women if not all sexually active women would truthfully admit that they prefer a big penis to a smaller one, Period!

A small penis size is among the top three causes of sexual frustration among women and that is not new to most men as we all know a small penis only ends up tickling a woman during sex and not giving any pleasure. Women tend to accept the penile size of their lovers as long as they have no other option; the moment a woman finds a man with a bigger penis that is willing to become their lover they tend to dump the former lover with a smaller one.

But the major reason women prefer a bigger penis is just a matter of anatomy. The pleasure points in a woman’s vagina must be physically stimulated in order for her to achieve an orgasm, if a woman’s lover is unfortunate to have a small sexual organ, the pleasure spots are not stimulated during sex and that usually results in the woman being sexually frustrated. So it is only normal for almost every woman to prefer a bigger penile size to a smaller one, what is the point in going through sexual frustration if they have another option?

 
     
 
     
 

Why big penises are better.

 
     
 

1) Bigger variety of positions available.

2) Easier to sit on top of - it kind of holds you up like your sitting on a fence post. You can just rock and cum all night long.

3) Much louder orgasms.... being "stuffed" really does add to the pleasure.

4) They tend to give men more confidence and make them more aggressive in bed, which is a very good thing.

5) They are absolutely sexy.

Men with big penises have a lot of advantages. They have more self esteem and women feel like they have gotten something.

The main reason women are looking for a well endowed man is for complete sexual satisfaction during intercourse. A guy with a small penis cannot stimulate the walls of her vagina satisfactorily during intercourse.

 
     
 
     
 

Women’s bad experiences

 
     
 

“Ok, I'll admit it I can be a real bitch sometimes... When it comes to men I have high standards and do not settle for just anyone because they happen to be around at the right time and that comes across to most men as me being a bitch. I like to think that I am the total package and every guy I meet tells me that, so because of that I am extremely selective and place a high priority on looks, body and confidence-- once all those three qualities are met then I focus on the personality in hopes of having great sex with a great guy. Due to my selective nature I did not start having sex until I went to college and even to this day I do not have sex as often as I would like because I just don't meet that many guys worth having sex with. I have been very lucky in the experiences I've had and up until recently I never had BAD SEX!

I met a hot guy on Halloween and we talked on the phone for a month before seeing each other again. He actually turned out to be as very nice a guy (and smart) as he was gorgeous (with a great body, might I add) so naturally I was very into him and anticipated the greatest sex ever. After we had a fun night out we came back to my place and then it happened (or in my case, didn't happen)-- this beautiful man was cursed with a small penis (the smallest I've ever seen in my life! and I liked him so much I tried to work with it but to my complete disappointment I did not get mine but he got his THREE times! Regardless of how good the oral sex was I wanted the real thing and he just didn't have it! The entire time I was thinking what a waste of a face and body he was-- "deceptive packaging" as one of my girlfriends said-- because he was just so damn sexy yet he wasn't equipped to pleasure any woman.

I haven't spoken to him since then and it's killing me inside that I can be so messed up. Just a week ago I really liked this guy and now it's like I'm avoiding him completely. I plan on talking to him soon but just don't see us working out. I feel bad for caring so much but on the other hand, why is it bad to want great sex with your partner? If it wasn't for this small (but major) problem then we would be great together... I always had a theory about attractive men that were too nice-- they lacked a big penis-- and it turned out I was right (at least in this case.) Now I'm just a bit concerned about meeting another guy with the same problem. A friend of mine suggested that I just tell guys once we start talking that I like a man with a big penis so that way they know who they are dealing with. Is it appropriate to tell guys that? And how do I slip that in a conversation, "I like cats, the Lakers, oh and a big penis on my man." Yeah, I don't know...

If a small penis should come with a warning sign, what would men want women to warn them about-- being psycho, needy, unfaithful, inconsiderate? Mine would say "I'm damn near perfect and you better be too!" :)

P.S.
When I say small I mean like 3 or 4 inches!!! And big doesn't need to be 9 inches or more-- although that's Ok :)-- 6 or 7 inches is good with me. I just want to clarify that for those who misunderstood my "small" and "big" references.

P.S.S.
I'm being sarcastic when I say "damn near perfect" hence the smiley face at the end but I guess that doesn't come across in writing... I'm just a confident woman who wants a man who compliments my personality in every way. Hope that clarifies things for those who feel I'm arrogant and immature Lol“

 
 

“Like every single one of these shrimp dick losers asks the same questions – “Do you think I could satisfy a woman with my small cock?” or “Is there any woman out there who would want my small penis?” – as if the answer wasn’t obvious. Put it this way stupid… if you’ve got so little down there that it’s hard for you to even masturbate, what idiot delusion would ever dare make you hope a woman could enjoy that ridiculous joke you’ve got between your legs? If you haven’t got enough cock for proper stroking, you don’t have near enough to be worth a woman’s time.

Seriously… why do you think so many women are experimenting with bisexuality and going lesbian? It’s not that they don’t want to be penetrated – they love strapon sex… trust me, I fuck enough of them ~grinz~. It’s that they’re tired of wasting their time with guys who simply do not measure up. The days of micro male charity and arranged marriages are over, little boy. Bend over and spread your ass cheeks… if you’ve got no cock, then you must have a pussy”

 
     
 

"About six months ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 18 months and have recently met someone new. The other day the new boy and I were engaging in some hands-on action which led me to discover that he nowhere near measured up to my ex. The new boy was around 4-6″. My problem is that I’m really worried about having sex with him because my ex was over 8″. I feel really disappointed and I know that 8″ is a high bar that’s been set. Am I bad person or should I go looking for something more? Why can’t good-looking men come with the measurements of their penis tattooed onto their wrist or something? The problems and surprises that would solve.."
–Sizeist

 
     
     
 

"Small penis and I'm terrified he's bad in bed!

Hi everyone
I've recently started seeing this guy, he's amazing, we get on really well and I really like him and though we've been spending a lot of time together, we're taking the physical side of things slow which I was happy with, so refreshing for a guy to be all cuddly and to spend so much time making out without him ripping your clothes off. But he was so cute, I knew there had to be something wrong with him!

A few days ago we progressed from the kissing stage to touching, and it wasn't amazing though I came, I directed his hand a lot. But also, first of all he couldn't get it up which was just akward, and it was tiny! My guy friend said to wait til I actually saw it erect and all. But last night it was and it was still pretty damn small and the "other stuff" I mean it's not amazing. I don't know what to do. I don't want to sleep with him if it's not going to be worth my while. But i really like him, he's so lovely. Aghhhh. I don't k now what to do!"

 
     
     
 

"Small penis = bad sex

Hey all, my boyfriends penis is on the small side and I can't really feel it when it's inside me! I never come and it's getting abit frustrating, what positions would you suggest for this? Any other ladies out there with length-challenged bfs?"

 
     
     
 

"yeahhh my boyfriend is tiiny! i mean really quite miniscule! but you know, have to make the best of it! we havn't had sex yet, im kind of worried for when we do because I honestly don't know how he will reach to get inside! also does anyone else have the problem of really slightly feeling like a kiddy fiddler when your doing stuff to him? i don't mean feel really awful, just a bit of a turn off? things are going downhill between us anyway, so maybe thats why. but yeah i worry about what might happen if we have sex as its so small! and also how small is small because i swear i didnt know it was possible for a guy to be as small as my boyfriend!! sorry to be graphic but i was just rather shocked!"

 
     
     
 

"Does penis size matter?? Would you ever dump a guy over a small one?

Ok this really amazing guy I have been talking to for like 3 mths just told me he has a REALLY small penis like (1 and a half inches) and I am about to cry.. like literally I am disgusted I can't even talk to him right now. But I mean he is really great like we have so much in common he is just AMAZING. But I cannot get over a small penis like its sick to me i've only seen big huge ones like 8 inches and over. I almost feel like he is putting me on because I am obsessed with losing my virginity and having sex... and I really pray he is joking because I can't continue with someone who is THAT small... like I want babies one day and 1 inch and a half will not give me a baby. I'm disgusted with him right now I can't even explain... I am LIVID!

So would you date a guy who was that small?. (idk if it gets bigger hard.. i mean I assume so but ew still)

 LMAO, she is no where near shallow, she is being truthfully about the situation.
Anyway, he may be joking. because he knows your a virgin and probaly would act like this... But Would I date a guy with a small wee wee.... Date yeah, sex? no. Not my type, Have I? yes, was it fun? not for me, just used to 9 inchs... but there are guys out there who have their small wee wees and can work it..."

 
     
     
 

“When a significant new boy comes on to the scene, it's imperative that you ask yourself a few pertinent questions.

Is he lovely? Is he kind? Does he have a penis you could live with for the rest of your life?

The last is important, see, because I don't pick out crockery for a future with a small penis. I have found that a diminutive member is riddled with issues and the harbinger of dismal sex. In addition, it’s simply dangerous.

Point. I once gave a guy a hernia during sex. Well, I say ‘I’ when really he gave himself one. While I’d like to claim it was due to sexual gymnastics of Olympian proportions, it was, in fact, due to his heroic attempt to make his little peen do something that it was not capable of: give pleasure.

The man had a dick that bore an uncanny resemblance to my thumb. Only less hard. It was unfortunate.

For a week I played the dutiful girlfriend tending the wounded man that had busted a gut in our first throes of  rapture. I held his hand on the way to surgery and brought him crème brûlée while he lolled about in a drugged post-op stupor. But as soon as he was able to keep the pudding down, I bid my adieus to him and his tiny willy and skipped out of the hospital never to look back.

Superficial? I'm ok with that. It's no more superficial than choosing a man for his intelligence, witty humour or bank balance. It either works for you, or it doesn’t. I know guys who won’t date ‘fat chicks’ or blondes. For myself, I don’t want to play with The Little Penis That Could. And although there’s a lot to be said for all that motion of the ocean blah blah, I get seasick on dinghies. 

Size and general penis health
does matter and any woman that tells you otherwise is either lying or has never had the pleasure of hosting a Tom Thumb. Or a Godzilla for that matter.

And there’s the rub. While the men reading this might be getting their ball sacks in a twist about it, ya’ll need to understand that a good penis is the average penis - not too big, not too small, good on girth and hard like the rock.

That last one’s the real kicker actually. Ever heard the phrase ‘it’s like trying to shove a marshmallow in a two-penny slot’? Yup. Lay off the smokes and booze bucko and get some exercise. No matter how brilliant you think your super-cock is, if all you can manage is a semi on a good day, you’ve got problems.

Now look, don't get me wrong. It's not that women the world over are collectively bemoaning their partner's penis size. If they want more of anything it's probably more kissing, more cuddling, more oral and more tenderness.…But for myself, I want all of that AND a good penis. 
I'm demanding that way."
 

 
     
  "So I simply don’t get involved with small- or limp-dick men. It’s a lifestyle choice. I don’t want to be using buttplugs to enjoy a vaginal orgasm during penetration for the rest of my life."  
     
 
     
 

How important is penis size for women?

It is well known that the importance of penis size is a matter of considerable public interest. We also know, on the basis of mostly anecdotal (and personal) experience, that penis size matters to men a great deal (Pietropinto, 1986), at least in their adolescent years. Unfortunately, much less is known about how important women judge penis size to be. Popular accounts abound (Anonymous, 2003), but there is a lack of solid research data regarding this issue (Eisenman, 2001). Information on how important penis size is to sexually active women could be potentially useful in the context of sex therapy, as well as in intersex management. Regarding the latter, there is a debate about the implications of micropenis for the quality of life, which is further linked to the question of possible surgical reassignment to female sex versus early androgen treatment (Wisniewski et al., 2001). While a number of authors point to case reports of people who manage a reasonable sex life with a micropenis (Bankhead, 2003; Reilly & Woodhouse, 1989; van Seters & Slob, 1988), some patients report that their partners have left them because of small penis size (H. F. L. Meyer- Bahlburg, personal e-mail communication, July 27, 2005). The data presented below were collected in the “Sexual Styles of Urban Women in Croatia” study, which was carried out in the five biggest Croatian cities in 1998 Stulhofer, 1999). The sample consisted of 556 women aged 19–49 years. A list of randomly chosen addresses was used as the basis for participant selection. Women without coital experience were excluded from the study. Respondents were surveyed in their home by trained female interviewers. The questionnaire consisted of 82 variables, including 3 questions regarding the importance of partner’s penis size (length and girth), as well as its overall esthetic appeal, for the respondent’s sexual pleasure. Respondents used a 3-item scale (unimportant, somewhat important, and very important) for recording answers. It should be noted that the questions regarding penis size did not allow us to distinguish between the claims that relate penis size to pleasure and those who relate it primarily to discomfort or pain. As expected, girth was found to be more important than length (Table I). A fifth of respondents (21.8%) reported that they found both girth and length unimpor- tant, while 12.8% judged both qualities very important. Table I shows responses broken down by age cohorts. The differences among the groups were not statistically significant. It was hypothesized that sexual experience (as measured by number of lifetime sexual partners) would have an effect on penis size evaluation. The results of this analysis are presented in Table II. As expected, the differences between the groups were significant, with more experienced women judging penis size more important, both in the case of penis length (p< .005) and girth (p< .007). In addition to questions regarding penis size, we asked women how important they found the overall esthetic quality (appearance) of their partner’s penis. The majority of respondents judged it to be somewhat important (44.9%) while the rest were almost equally divided between it being unimportant (28.2%) and being very important for their satisfaction (26.9%). Should men start worrying not only how it hangs, but also how it looks?

Penile length:

Unimportant

140 (24.6)

59 (24.2)

38 (21.6) 43 (29.1)

Somewhat

326 (57.4) 136 (55.7) 113 (64.2) 77 (52.0)

important

Very important 102 (18.0)

49 (20.1)

25 (14.2) 28 (18)

Penile girth

Unimportant

142 (25.4)

58 (23.8)

42 (24.3) 42 (29.8)

Somewhat

296 (53.0) 124 (50.8)

97 (56.1) 75 (53.2)

important

Very important 120 (21.5)

62 (25.4)

34 (19.7) 24 (17.0

 
     
 
     
 

Trying to have sex with a smalldick.

 
     
 

Intercourse can be the most exciting thing for a woman, to feel a man's cock come inside her most sensitive part, can give her the greatest pleasure. She is waiting to be filled up and to feel him fucking her until she has orgasms after orgasms by his fat, manly cock. Imagine her disappointment when his penis is too small to give her pleasure, when she can hardly feel anything.

 
     
 

 
     
 

When she looks down, she can see he is all inside her but she still does not feel his dick. It feels like something is missing. This is not how it felt when she had sex with real men before.

 
     
 

 
     
 

He is doing his best, trying to fuck her. She holds up her legs in a desperate attempt to get his dick inside more, still hoping to feel it.

 
     
 

 
     
 

When he tries to fuck her ass instead, she has new hopes to feel something. Her asshole is small and even his little dick should be able to fill it up. The problem is: His dick is short and asses are round; he simply does not reach into her ass enough, his dick is too short to fuck her deep enough.

 
     
 

 
     
 

To sit on top of him would be a nice position if it was not for the lack of feeling even when she gets his dick all inside her.

 
     
 

 
     
 

She tries to fuck him but the more she does, the more she just gets tired, frustrated and disappointed. She remembers the real men's cocks, how they made her explode in orgasms, screaming of pleasure when she was riding them like she tries to now.

 
     
 

 
     
 

She already knows it is pointless but she gives him a last chance to put his useless dick inside her from behind. The feeling is only annoying now, she knows her chances for pleasure is zero tonight.

 
     
 

 
     
 

She has lost all her excitement now but she does not want to hurt his feelings, so she takes his dick in her hand and pretends to care for him by jerking him a little. She only feels disgust for that small, un-manly dick. If it was a real man's cock, she would be busy sucking it by now but that is the last thing she would do to this ridiculous little thing.

 
     
 

 
     
 

More and more women realize that it takes a real man to have real pleasure and they make sure to have real men for lovers. A smalldicked husband needs to be trained to accept that the bed should be used for sex by his wife and a real man while he can watch and wait to clean up and serve them.

 
     
 

 

 

 

The only good sex the smalldicks can be used for is to lick.

Smalldicks mostly are good lickers. They need to be.

A smalldick who knows his place, will lick anything he is told to.

 
 

 

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